Cairo or Carpas

I'm going to make a list. It's called: "Cairo or Carpas?"

(Disclaimer: I know I can be honest cause it's MY blog, MINE!! but for personal boundries/tact-type purposes, several of the list items will be stated in "code". Please leave a comment for clarification on certain "coded" words and phrases, or if you have a witty guess. I make no blanket promise to enlighten you, though.

Also, I welcome any additional items for the list, it's a work in progress.)

Cairo:

good: super sweet Master's Degree in International Human Rights Law, working with african refugees, "dahab", my own life that i really like, cheap excitement, fuul and falafal, stella, learning arabic

bad: minimal and muted fellowship, sexual harrassment, "certain one from mars", major debt, long distance relationships, "need for resolve"

ugly: "tea", "moon worship", "war", "no honey at all whatsoever", "deafness"

Carpas:

good: REALITY!!!!, being close to my sister, shoulders and knees, running!!!!, making money, saving money, new macbook (w/out debt), endless movie nights, monday night prayer, singing in public

bad: ew job, normalnessness, "questioning the calling", "hometown haze", missing my friends like crazy aaaaaahhhhh, waiting, "proximity to mom", apathy

ugly (or potentially redeemable and therefore maybe crazy cool awesome, depending): "consumption", "circles", "greener grass", "ghosts"

oh man....I'm more confused than before.